For HIV singles, the world of dating becomes even trickier. While dating in modern society is already challenging enough, HIV dating has its own unique set of challenges. Fortunately for singles who are HIV positive, their diagnosis does not have to become a death sentence for their social life.
Let's take a closer look at the challenges that HIV singles face as they head into the world of HIV dating and how they can successfully overcome these common issues.
Finding a Dating Site
The first hurdle that needs to be cleared is finding an acceptable HIV dating site that can cater to your needs. Not only do these sites offer plentiful opportunities for meeting the right person for you, but they also provide a community where HIV positive singles can compare stories and experiences in a nonjudgmental environment.
These sites make it easy for you to disclose your diagnosis and they are pressure free. While you can also use mainstream dating sites, you may receive some blow back from those who do not understand the true reality of dating with HIV.
Disclosure
Let's say you have met someone that you are interested in and you would like to take things to the next level. Knowing when to disclose this type of sensitive information is incredibly important. Some may choose to do so over the Internet, which can take some of the sting out of a rejection, while others may decide to tell the person that they are interested in face to face.
This is a personal choice and there is no right or wrong answer, so you will need to make the decision that works best for you. There are also certain questions that a person may ask of themselves when dating with HIV, including:
Am I Required To Let My Date Know?
Laws have been put into place to punish those who are knowingly HIV positive and continue to sleep with other people, without disclosing their diagnosis first. While some believe that these laws are outdated and have only been put into place to punish those with HIV, they exist for a reason. Tell your prospective partner before any physical contact takes place, or you could end up behind bars.
Do I Need To Use Condoms?
As of the moment, there are two different schools of thought on the matter. Some doctors believe that different strains of the HIV virus can be spread between two people, while others do not. If you and your partner decide to become physically involved, consulting with a trusted physician will help you learn more about the specifics of your situation. Don't take unnecessary risks.
As you can see, HIV singles face a unique set of challenges. But with the right attitude and mentality, these hurdles can be cleared with ease, allowing you to enjoy the benefits of dating, while avoiding societal stigmas.